RAY SEFAHCOACH · MENTOR · SPEAKER
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MENTORING FOR BOYS & PARENT SUPPORT

Sometimes a different ear
makes the difference.

A relatable adult your son can speak to. A thoughtful space for you to work through what feels difficult at home.

Enquire about a free 20-minute parent introduction

Read the service, prices and terms first. Then enquire by email to arrange 20 minutes on Zoom to discuss paid support and suitability. This is not a coaching or mentoring session. For an under-18, the parent or guardian books and attends.

Ray Sefah with the STEP NOW team
Listen. Relate. Build trust.Support shaped around your family.

TWO WAYS TO START

Who needs support right now?

Support for you

Talk through communication, boundaries and the challenges you are facing with your son. You know your family. Ray brings another perspective and practical next steps.

Mentoring for your son

A space to talk about confidence, emotions, friendships, decisions, responsibility and direction. The relationship starts with listening, then builds towards steps he is willing to take.

This is not about teaching you how to parent. Sometimes a young person needs someone outside the family who can listen, relate and offer a different perspective.

EXPERIENCE THAT HELPS RAY CONNECT

Real conversations.
Consistent support.

Ray is a former Behaviour Specialist, youth mentor and STEP NOW co-founder, with seven years of experience across schools, pupil referral units, prison settings and community work.

That experience informs a grounded approach: build trust, understand the person and work on manageable next steps. Mentoring supports personal development and does not replace specialist care.

Meet Ray

A simple first step.

Please read the service overview, prices and terms before enquiring about your free 20-minute Zoom introduction. We discuss the paid support, suitability and your questions. This is not a coaching or mentoring session, and there is no obligation to buy. For an under-18, the parent or guardian books and attends.

Tap Enquire, then send the ready-written email. No payment is taken. If your email app does not open, write to ray@raysefah.com. Keep personal details private for now. There is no need to send your son’s private history or sensitive records.

Enquire about a free 20-minute parent introduction

Age eligibility, session format, fees, parent involvement and safeguarding arrangements are agreed before any booking or payment. Young adults aged 18 or over can enquire for themselves.

Consent, privacy and safeguarding

For under-18s, mentoring requires parent or guardian consent and the young person’s willingness to participate. Parent attendance, the session setting and emergency contact arrangements are discussed individually before sessions are agreed.

Ray explains what stays private, what progress updates may be shared and when a concern about harm may need to be shared with appropriate people or services. Absolute secrecy cannot be promised.

Contact with under-18s uses agreed, parent-visible professional channels. There is no recording or public use of a young person’s story or image without separate permission.

Enquiries are welcome. Young-person bookings and payments open only once eligibility and the written safeguarding arrangements have been confirmed.

What happens after I enquire?

Ray discusses your needs and the young person’s willingness to take part. Ray agrees the support, fees, terms and safeguarding before payment. Once everything is ready and payment is confirmed, he sends your private joining details and resource links.

Session length, cancellations, rescheduling, communication channels and agreed check-ins are confirmed in writing. Mentoring is not therapy or emergency support; if specialist help is needed, that is discussed.

For adult coaching and the existing package options, visit one-to-one coaching.