REBUILD · 4-week self-guided program

Heal from what hurt you. Rebuild who you are.

A step-by-step program for getting over a relationship that broke you. Stop going back, stop overthinking, and start believing you deserve better.

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Coach Ray Sefah

Does this sound like you?

  • You keep checking their page, even though you know you shouldn’t.
  • You’ve thought about messaging them more times than you can count.
  • You know you deserve better, but you don’t fully believe it yet.
  • Your mind won’t switch off at night.
  • You feel behind everyone else and don’t know where to start.

You don’t need more motivation. You need a plan for each day, and someone who’s been there to walk you through it.

How it works

Four weeks. One step at a time.

Each week has a workbook to write in, guided audios to listen to, and short videos from me. Do it in your own time. 20 minutes a day is enough.

Week 1

Survive

Stop going back. Get through the urge to text, the late nights and the moments you miss them.

Week 2

Heal

Make sense of what happened, let it go, and stop letting it define you.

Week 3

Rebuild your worth

Rebuild your confidence and self-talk, and raise your standards for what you accept.

Week 4

Move forward

Stop feeling behind, reset your routine and choose your next chapter.

What’s inside

See exactly what you get.

Everything is ready the moment you buy. Here’s what’s waiting for you inside.

4 workbooks to write in

Toxic Love Recovery Journal workbook cover
Toxic Love Recovery JournalMake sense of what happened
No-Contact Survival Workbook cover
No-Contact Survival WorkbookStop going back
Healing Starter Pack cover
Healing Starter PackLet it go, one page at a time
Confidence Rebuild Toolkit cover
Confidence Rebuild ToolkitRebuild your self-talk and standards

15 guided audios

REBUILD Audio15 tracks
For the hard moments
  • When you miss them
  • When you can’t sleep
  • When your mind won’t stop
Guided by Coach Ray Sefah · listen anywhere

3 videos from Ray

How to Choose Yourself
I Feel So Behind
The Reset Routine
Bonus
The REBUILD Self-Audit. Answer the questions, score yourself, and see exactly where to focus first.
Meet your coach

Hi, I’m Coach Ray Sefah.

I’m a life coach, speaker and co-founder of STEP NOW. Over 500,000 people follow my work online. I built REBUILD from the same tools I use with my 1-to-1 clients, so you can do this work on your own schedule, for a fraction of the cost.

Kysean George

“I was going through situations that were impacting my confidence and self-worth, and his coaching was a game changer.”Kysean George · 1-to-1 client

Esther A.

“His guidance helped me work through imposter syndrome, build confidence, set healthier boundaries…”Esther A. · coaching client

Harshu

“Those changes helped me feel happier, more confident and more positive about my life.”Harshu · 12 months of coaching

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REBUILD: Heal & Rebuild After Heartbreak

$47

One payment · Instant access · 4 workbooks, 15 audios, 3 videos and the Self-Audit

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Prefer to do it live with me? Join REBUILD Live in January, $99. Want 1-to-1 support? See coaching options.

Questions

How do I get it?

Right after you pay, you’ll get an email with your course link. Everything is ready straight away.

How long does it take?

It’s built as four weeks, about 20 minutes a day. Go faster or slower. It’s yours to keep using.

Is this only for romantic relationships?

It’s written mainly for breakups and toxic relationships, but the confidence, self-worth and reset tools help after any relationship that hurt you.

Do I need to talk to Ray?

No. REBUILD is fully self-guided. If you’d like to go deeper, you can join a live class or book a free 15-minute call about 1-to-1 coaching.

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